Saturday, September 25, 2010
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
Home with Maria for 2 weeks
Quick post just to let you all know that things are still going very well.
There has been tremendous changes is Maria these first two weeks since we've been home. From the previous post, you know that it only took a few days here to start smiling regularly with little giggles here and there. Now, though, she is smiling all the time with lots of laughter (sometimes for very unknown reasons).
She used to be very shy and would just stand in one place like she didn't know what to do with her newfound freedom. But now she never sits still. She grabs our hand and pulls us around to wherever she wants to go. She went from no maintenance to high maintenance in about a week. She goes through the same sequence of events over and over again. She goes up and down the stairs for no reason at all over and over.
She's gone from being very quiet and unresponsive to now jabbering out some baby talk. Not bad for two weeks. My hopes are that in another two weeks or so, we'll start to get some real words that mean something and have a purpose.
After about a week of the 3 of us not sleeping very well in our bed, we started grasping at straws as to why Maria was having such a hard time at night. It turns out the solution was to put her in her own bed so she could have more space. She practically dove into it when we introduced her to it. It is right next to the bed on Trisha's side. So glad that worked out. One week of a kid in the bed is one week too many for me. Not. A. Fan.
Someday soon, more pictures will be forthcoming. The battery is recharging. And I'm too tired right now. So there. Take my word for it, she's really really cute.
Kraig
There has been tremendous changes is Maria these first two weeks since we've been home. From the previous post, you know that it only took a few days here to start smiling regularly with little giggles here and there. Now, though, she is smiling all the time with lots of laughter (sometimes for very unknown reasons).
She used to be very shy and would just stand in one place like she didn't know what to do with her newfound freedom. But now she never sits still. She grabs our hand and pulls us around to wherever she wants to go. She went from no maintenance to high maintenance in about a week. She goes through the same sequence of events over and over again. She goes up and down the stairs for no reason at all over and over.
She's gone from being very quiet and unresponsive to now jabbering out some baby talk. Not bad for two weeks. My hopes are that in another two weeks or so, we'll start to get some real words that mean something and have a purpose.
After about a week of the 3 of us not sleeping very well in our bed, we started grasping at straws as to why Maria was having such a hard time at night. It turns out the solution was to put her in her own bed so she could have more space. She practically dove into it when we introduced her to it. It is right next to the bed on Trisha's side. So glad that worked out. One week of a kid in the bed is one week too many for me. Not. A. Fan.
Someday soon, more pictures will be forthcoming. The battery is recharging. And I'm too tired right now. So there. Take my word for it, she's really really cute.
Kraig
Sunday, September 12, 2010
At home
Maria seems to be adjusting really well. She's still pretty shy and not really sure what she can do sometimes. She still hasn't said anything, but is smiling and laughing a lot more. She likes to follow the cats and loves to walk around outside. She likes playing outside on the slide the most, but I can only do that for a little while because my arms get sore helping her up and down the slide.
I just to take this opportunity to thank all of you who have supported us along this incredible journey. We really appreciate all your support, especially your prayers. We can now really see how God has lead us through this whole process.


We have got the most awesome friends and family. When we got home Saturday night Maria's room was all painted and decorated. Kraig and I tried to decorate her room before we left, but it wasn't looking very good. A couple of our friends came in while we were gone and fixed our mistakes and then started over. It looks really great! We also had a friend bring over some food for our fridge and some snacks for the kids. We really didn't feel like going to store when we got back so, we've really relied on the sandwiches and snacks. It's also been great food for the boys' lunches. A friend called and brought over dinner last night. On Tuesday another friend from church called and has setup meals for us the next couple weeks. My mom cleaned our house while we were gone, even the oven! Our neighbors have also been great taking care of things while we were gone and welcoming us when we got home. We are so blessed and thankful to have such a great support system.
Here are some more pics:
Sunday, September 5, 2010
Maria Li is home!!!!
Maria Li has finally made it home!!!! It was a long journey home. Yesterday was the longest day ever for us, literally. We gained 13 hours so, it was a 37 hour day. It actually started Friday night. 3 out of our 4 planes were delayed. We were suppose to leave Guangzhou at 10:40pm Friday night. That plane was an hour late and we only had a 50 minute connection in Hong Kong to catch our plane to San Francisco. We landed at 12:30am in HK which was the time our plane was suppose to leave to SFO. We weren't sure if they'd hold the plane for us or not, but when we got there an agent was waiting for us and about 20 others to take us to the gate. He walked so fast we could barely keep up. When we finally got to the gate, we found out that plane was delayed until 1:30am., then 2:30 am, them 3:15, then 4:15. Andrew and Lili fell asleep on some chairs. Finally at 4:15 am they announced that the flight was cancelled and was rebooked at 1:00pm the next day and they would put us up at the airport hotel for the rest of the night. We were thinking about just staying and sleeping at the airport so, we wouldn't disturb Lili and Andrew, but we really wanted a few hours in a real bed.
We had to go back through immigration and then walk through the airport, across a walkway to then finally to the hotel. By the time we got there, my back and arms were aching from carrying Lili. We were about the last to get to the hotel and there was a line so long, we weren't sure we'd actually get a room before we had to leave. I mentioned to Kraig that they should let the older people and families with young kids get the rooms first. So, he went up and asked a manager and they were able to get us right in a room. Thank you Kraig!!!! We got to sleep after 5:30 and and got a wake up call at 9:30.
The plane from HK to SFO then actually left at 2:00pm on Saturday. The boys and Maria were so great on the airplane. The boys sat by each other and didn't even fight! There were screens on the back of each chair that had movies and video games that kept the boys pretty busy. Lili and Andrew slept quite a bit on the plane, but Jakob didn't sleep at all.
I was a little nervous about the connection in SFO because we only had 1 1/2 hours to get all our luggage, go through immigration and customs, find the Delta terminal, recheck our bags, go through security and get to the gate. When we got to immigration, I asked the officer if we could get sped through since we were trying to catch another flight. He originally told me that we had to go through the Us immigration then got to the "new immigrants" window, but after I pleaded with him, he let us all go to the 'new immigrants' window. Once we got through there, Maria Li became a US citizen!!!!
The next flight from SFO to Salt Lake City was the only flight that was on time. We got on board the plane with 10 minutes to spare.
Our flight from SLC to KCI was delayed over an hour. It was a very small plane so, when we got on, they made us gate check some carry ons. I didn't think about it at the time, but the bag they made us check had Lili's diapers in them. Then of course about an hour into the flight she had blowout in her diaper. I was sitting there trying to figure out what to do. She was crying and there was another hour left so, had to change her. I asked Kraig to see if there were any other little kids on board and maybe we could use one of their diapers or maybe the flight attendants had one, but no such luck. I just decided to take her to the bathroom , take off the diaper and clean her and her pants. Luckily I had wipes. Then I just just put some Kleenex in her pants and prayed she wouldn't pee. Yeah, it's fun changing a dirty, stinky diaper in the little airplane bathroom. I sat her on my lap with the changing pad under her in case she peed. and of course, when we were landing I noticed that her pants were wet. I was able to just carry her out on her changing pad.
We met Grandma and Grandpa J at the gate. The boys were so happy to see them!! Maria met them and then Grandma & I took her to the bathroom to change her.
We got home around 11 and went to bed around midnight. Lili woke up crying a couple times in the night. She rarely cries and this was the hardest she'd ever cried. We couldn't calm her for a while, but then I went down and got her a bottle and she calmed down and went to sleep on Kraig until he trie`d to lay her on the bed and then she cried again. I finally laid her and me and she went to sleep. I didn't get much sleep with her on me, but I wanted to make sure she got some good sleep. I was finally able to lay her beside me at about 7:30 then we both slept until about 10:30. The boys slept until after 12:00.
Lili seems to like her new home, but is still checking everything out. Jakob and Andrew are such great big brothers and love their little sister so much. They are so excited to introduce her to everyone. We probably won't get out much for a while.
Kraig will post some pictures and add more later (and probably fix any errors I have on this post.)
Trish
We had to go back through immigration and then walk through the airport, across a walkway to then finally to the hotel. By the time we got there, my back and arms were aching from carrying Lili. We were about the last to get to the hotel and there was a line so long, we weren't sure we'd actually get a room before we had to leave. I mentioned to Kraig that they should let the older people and families with young kids get the rooms first. So, he went up and asked a manager and they were able to get us right in a room. Thank you Kraig!!!! We got to sleep after 5:30 and and got a wake up call at 9:30.
The plane from HK to SFO then actually left at 2:00pm on Saturday. The boys and Maria were so great on the airplane. The boys sat by each other and didn't even fight! There were screens on the back of each chair that had movies and video games that kept the boys pretty busy. Lili and Andrew slept quite a bit on the plane, but Jakob didn't sleep at all.
I was a little nervous about the connection in SFO because we only had 1 1/2 hours to get all our luggage, go through immigration and customs, find the Delta terminal, recheck our bags, go through security and get to the gate. When we got to immigration, I asked the officer if we could get sped through since we were trying to catch another flight. He originally told me that we had to go through the Us immigration then got to the "new immigrants" window, but after I pleaded with him, he let us all go to the 'new immigrants' window. Once we got through there, Maria Li became a US citizen!!!!
The next flight from SFO to Salt Lake City was the only flight that was on time. We got on board the plane with 10 minutes to spare.
Our flight from SLC to KCI was delayed over an hour. It was a very small plane so, when we got on, they made us gate check some carry ons. I didn't think about it at the time, but the bag they made us check had Lili's diapers in them. Then of course about an hour into the flight she had blowout in her diaper. I was sitting there trying to figure out what to do. She was crying and there was another hour left so, had to change her. I asked Kraig to see if there were any other little kids on board and maybe we could use one of their diapers or maybe the flight attendants had one, but no such luck. I just decided to take her to the bathroom , take off the diaper and clean her and her pants. Luckily I had wipes. Then I just just put some Kleenex in her pants and prayed she wouldn't pee. Yeah, it's fun changing a dirty, stinky diaper in the little airplane bathroom. I sat her on my lap with the changing pad under her in case she peed. and of course, when we were landing I noticed that her pants were wet. I was able to just carry her out on her changing pad.
We met Grandma and Grandpa J at the gate. The boys were so happy to see them!! Maria met them and then Grandma & I took her to the bathroom to change her.
We got home around 11 and went to bed around midnight. Lili woke up crying a couple times in the night. She rarely cries and this was the hardest she'd ever cried. We couldn't calm her for a while, but then I went down and got her a bottle and she calmed down and went to sleep on Kraig until he trie`d to lay her on the bed and then she cried again. I finally laid her and me and she went to sleep. I didn't get much sleep with her on me, but I wanted to make sure she got some good sleep. I was finally able to lay her beside me at about 7:30 then we both slept until about 10:30. The boys slept until after 12:00.
Lili seems to like her new home, but is still checking everything out. Jakob and Andrew are such great big brothers and love their little sister so much. They are so excited to introduce her to everyone. We probably won't get out much for a while.
Kraig will post some pictures and add more later (and probably fix any errors I have on this post.)
Trish
Thursday, September 2, 2010
Last Day in China
Well, we are ready to come home. Two weeks is long enough. It feels like we've been gone a long time.
This week in Guongzhou, we have gone to a safari park, botanical gardens, and done quite a bit of shopping. Stuff is pretty cheap here, probably because this is where everything is made.
Jakob has decided to be pretty adventurous at the restaurants. He's eaten pigeon and eel. The pigeon was pretty dark, kinda tasted like duck to me. The eel was really good, kinda tasted like steak teriaki or something.
Tonight we take a quick flight to Hong Kong, then over the big pond to San Francisco. We land 3 hrs before we take off. Yeah, think about that a while. We'll spend the night in SF, then take our final plane to Salt Lake City, then to KC. It will be soooooo good to be home.
For some reason, this computer is only letting me upload these 2 pics.
Kraig
This week in Guongzhou, we have gone to a safari park, botanical gardens, and done quite a bit of shopping. Stuff is pretty cheap here, probably because this is where everything is made.
Jakob has decided to be pretty adventurous at the restaurants. He's eaten pigeon and eel. The pigeon was pretty dark, kinda tasted like duck to me. The eel was really good, kinda tasted like steak teriaki or something.
Tonight we take a quick flight to Hong Kong, then over the big pond to San Francisco. We land 3 hrs before we take off. Yeah, think about that a while. We'll spend the night in SF, then take our final plane to Salt Lake City, then to KC. It will be soooooo good to be home.
For some reason, this computer is only letting me upload these 2 pics.
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Maria with Mom's necklaces |
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Jakob ate some roasted pigeon. He also ate some eel. |
Kraig
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